Author Judy
Today, I heard from my boy friend that the girl who confessed to her colleague and faced rejection had actually harbored feelings for him for a brief period before. However, the guy believed he had a chance with her but failed to seize it. Upon learning this "secret," he immediately burst into tears. At that moment, the store was playing somewhat melancholic music, intensifying his uncontrollable sobbing.
I can empathize with his feelings because, before being with my significant other, I also experienced over a year of unrequited love, going through rejections, many of which were expressed in subtle ways. At that time, I was so afraid of listening to songs.
Love is not everything in life, but once you feel its presence, it's likely to linger, even if you try to maintain a facade of calmness.
Ah, love is indeed complex, and it's challenging to categorize and organize various emotions. Fortunately, I now have a stable and unconditional love with my significant other.
今天听到对象说,她同事表白失败的那个女孩子,之前有一段时间其实是喜欢过那个同事的,只不过时间很短。但是那个男孩子却觉得自己原本有机会跟那个女孩在一起,自己却没抓住机会,在听到这个”秘密“的时候立马就哭了,当时店里还放着有些悲伤的音乐,他更加抑制不住的哭泣。
我很能懂他的感受,因为我跟对象在一起之前,也经历了一年多的单恋,经历过被拒绝,被很多次的委婉拒绝,那个时候,是根本不敢听歌的。
爱情不是生活的全部,但是一旦你感受到爱情的来临,很有可能你会走不出来,即使表面可以装作风平浪静。
哎,爱情真的好复杂,各种情绪好难归纳整理,还好我有了稳定的爱情,和无条件爱我的对象。